Thinking about divorce

The hardest questions about divorce rest on facts you can find.

Could I keep the house? What would I live on? Each question turns on a short list of facts. Gathering them privately is a practical first step in divorce preparation, before you decide anything.

What you gather here carries into your Alette Case File.

Alette surfaces and organizes. Professionals advise and finalize.

Why this preparation matters

A question you can break down is a question you can work on.

Asked in the abstract, these questions stay overwhelming. Broken into facts, they become a list. In Alette, you record the facts you have and mark the rest Unknown on the record it belongs to.

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Five questions, and the facts each one depends on.

Which ones apply depends on your situation.

QuestionThe facts it depends onWhere to look
Could I stay in the house?Mortgage balance and payment, property tax and insurance, today’s value, whether the loan could be refinanced in one name, your own incomeYour mortgage statement and property tax bill
What happens to health insurance?Whose employer carries the plan, the cost, who is covered, the cost of continuation coverageYour benefits portal or a recent pay stub
Would the children change schools?The current district, housing costs near it, childcare hours, how the week runs nowThe district boundary map and your childcare schedule
Am I responsible for debts in my spouse’s name?Which debts exist, whose name is on each, anything you signed or co-signedYour credit report, free at AnnualCreditReport.com
What would I live on?Income after tax, the costs that would follow you, accounts in your nameA recent pay stub and three months of bank statements

Alette shows what a question depends on. A professional can tell you what the answer means for you.

Open Questions

If you do not know, write it down and keep going.

Note each open question next to the record it belongs to, then move on. You don’t need an answer to keep gathering.

Common questions

Start with the question you think about most.

The free guide covers all 25 sections. Alette turns what you gather into one Case File. Your professionals advise from there.

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