What to bring.
Bring what you have and mark the gaps.
- The household now. Who lives where, who earns what, who pays which bills.
- Accounts either of you holds, with the institution and whose name is on each.
- Property and vehicles, with the name on the title and any loan against them.
- Debts, including anything co-signed.
- How the children’s week runs, including school and childcare.
- Any documents you already have.
- Your questions, written down in advance.
Questions to ask at a first meeting
- What are the options for how we proceed?
- What will you need from me, and by when?
- What does the process usually cost, and what changes the cost?
- What should I avoid doing right now?
A professional can answer these for your situation. Alette helps you arrive with them written down.